Who says monogamy in marriage has to be boring?
There’s a common misconception among the secular crowd, that christian marriages are bland and boring.
Says who?? Not my marriage!
Sure, we go through seasons that may seem less exciting than we’d like. There’s a natural ebb & flow to married life.
But boring? If your marriage is boring, then I’d say it’s time to spice it up!
I don’t know what your home life looks like, but my hubby gets up for work at the crack of dawn each morning, and returns home with an hour or two to spare before turning in for the night- only toย start the routine all over again.
Keeping the spark in a marriage can prove to be challenging at times.
But flirting doesn’t have to end when we get married. In fact, it should only get better with time!
I love thinking up fun and creative ways to show my hubby that he’s still “the one.”
After all, what man doesn’t love to hear that their wife still gets goosebumps at the very thought of him?
No man that I know! #amiright
As a truck driver, my husband is not easily accessible throughout the day. He is not allowed to be on his phone while on the road, which requires a bit of effort and creativity on my part, if I want to get in touch with him.
Texting seems to be the happy medium. I can send him a text anytime throughout the day, and I know that he’ll check his phone during his break. So, why not send him something that will make him smile?
Plus,ย flirting with my husband through text has proven to be loads of fun! For both of us.
For some, the idea of brainstorming ideas of texts messages to send on a regular basis is daunting.
Well, fret not! I have compiled the following list of creative texts to send your spouse, that will help to take the guesswork out of the process! You can thank me later. ๐
Feel free to add to- or take away from it– according to your individual personalities and comfort level.
#1. I have a surprise for you later. ๐
#2. You were in my dreams last night.
#3. How about a hot date later?
#4. Thinking of you…
#5. Last night was Uh-mazing!
#6. Shall we put the kids to bed early tonight?
#7. Can’t wait to see you…
#8. Guess what I’m wearing right now?
#9. Hey sexy, you’ve been on my mind.
#10. Wish you were here…
#11. I bought something new to wear tonight.
#12. Dreaming of your kiss.
#13. Miss yo face!
#14. Praying for you today…
#15. I’ve got your behind on my mind.
#16. Looking good, baby.
#17. Up for some fun tonight?
#18. I’m imagining you were here…
#19. You look HOT in that uniform.
#20. Wanna make out later?
#21. You’re the best thing that ever happened to me.
#22. Where would I be without you…
#23. Thinking of us is making me blush.
#24. I got us a sitter for tonight.
#25. I love you. <3
#26. You are da man!
#27. Feeling spontaneous tonight! ๐
#28. So glad I married you.
#29. How about a massage later?
#30. You make me smile. ((Wink))
#31. I’m making your favorite dinner tonight.
#32. You’re the best dang husband there is!
#33. #nakedfriday
#34. You make me so happy.
#35. I love us.
#36. Can’t wait until you’re home!
#37. Thinking about those hands…
#38. I wish you could hold me.
#39. On your way home? I’ll fill up the bath. ๐
#40. Take a selfie and send it to him. (Blow him a kiss, or a pic of your legs while wearing your sexy heels.)
#41. Send him the lyrics to, “Let’s Get it On.” (Sure to get him excited!)
#42. Send him a pic of your lingerie. (Another winner!)
#43. Facetime him.
#44. “Draw” him a picture message.
#46. Send some flirty emojis. (Lots to choose from.)
#47. Send a GIF (these are my favorites).
#48. Leave a sexy voicemail.
#49. Send him an audio text message.
#50. Send a link to “your” song.
*For more ideas on how to keep the romance alive in your marriage, check out this post!*
inkblotsofhope says
Clever idea for a post, Rachel, and such a good idea to keep the spark alive in a busy life!
Rachel Lee says
Yes! It takes intention! :0)
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Tara Adams says
I love this! I have some of my own but I can always add more to my list!
Rachel Lee says
Love that you already have some of your own! Go girl. ๐
Cathy McIntosh says
LOVE this! Fun, flirty, creative, and clean!! Just the right words to share for the man of our lives. Your suggestions honor husbands and keeps a spark alive. Thanks so much!!
Rachel Lee says
Thank you Cathy! Our marriages don’t have to be boring. And we don’t have to be dirty or crude to flirt and have fun either!! <3
Lori says
Great list – how fun!
Rachel Lee says
Thanks! <3
Cassie says
This is such a fun and awesome post. Love it/
Rachel Lee says
Thank you! ๐
Sabrina says
These are great!! One question, though…what about nosy teenagers who randomly pick up your phone to see who texted you? lol While I do scold them for that (for being nosy), it does happen!
Rachel Lee says
Lol. Good point! Funny story- this happened to us not long ago. The hubs and I were texting back and forth, and he sent me a cute little emoji wearing a small bikini, (or maybe it was a bra and panties- hard to tell), and my daughter happened to read it! Much to her horror, mind you, and she let out a hearty “Eww!”
All I could say was, “well, at least you know your parents love each other, right?!” Lol
Serves her right for going through my phone! Haha.
As a side note, there’s a reason why we keep it “clean.” ๐
Jenn Hesse says
I freakin’ LOVE this post! I can’t wait to try these with my husband – think it’d be weird if I sent them all at once in a text-storm? ๐
Rachel Lee says
Haha. Might be a little “much.” LOL Thanks Jenn!
Mrs. Laura Lane says
What a great idea! Why didn’t I think of that?
31 years and counting….
Laura of Harvest Lane Cottage
Sue says
Love this post and your list (which I’ve downloaded)! We use quite a bit of flirty humour with each other – laughing together is sexy after all! I’ve just sent hubby this text “So glad you begged me to marry you [winky face, laughing face, red heart]”, lol.
Rebecca @ Homeschool on the Ranch says
We should totally flier with our husbands! Marriage is work. I always say good marriage doesnt happen accident. Flirt, encourage, support, and be your husbands champion and #1 supporter
Rachel Lee says
Yes, yes, yes and YES!! Good marriages donโt happen by accidentโ Couldnโt agree more!
Happy flirting to you!๐
Love Shifu says
Wow, thatโs a huge collection. Sending flirty text is one of the best way to make for an interesting relationship and also for couples to get closer to each other. Not only flirty texts will make men smile, it will also make them go crazy for their girl .With so many text ideas I donโt see how anyone can not find the right words to text their boyfriend or husband.
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